OK, I think I found a partialan answer to my own question after Mike helped to word the right question :) The eQSL.cc FAQ says:
How do I handle SWL cards? When a user sets the SWL/HAM checkbox in his Profile to SWL, it automatically forces all incoming and outgoing cards to say 'Confirming SWL Reception' instead of the usual 'This Confirms Our 2-Way QSO'. If you are an SWL, just make sure to go to My Profile and set yourself up as an SWL. If you are a ham, when you send an eQSL to an SWL, it will automatically put the correct wording into the card.
Though I still wonder whetherAlso according to this discussion SWLs do send paper QSL cards, and if they do how such QSL cards supposed to be handled.